After a hard morning of garage sale-ing and having lunch with my friend Jen, I put Aidan to sleep and played around on the internet. A few of my friends have blogs, which is really how I keep in touch with their lives. I jokingly call it "internet or my space stalking." So I was reading my friend Josh's blog today. Often I think about my old friends and calling them, or maybe I hope they'll call me. Well, today his entry prompted me to pick up the phone and call him. Someone has to take the first step. (Hello Josh, if you're reading.) It was nice to talk to him again. We've known each other for a very long time. He was one of the first people I met as a college student. So, to be staring down 30 together is kind of funny. It's always good to talk to him. He always has a joke and he always has some news of people we used to know. It's interesting to hear him talk about what's going on in his life as we are now in different places, geographically and metaphorically. He lives with his gf and is going to college. I've been married for a while and am a stay at home mom. Sometimes even the best of friends can have a hard time relating with that kind of distance. I always hate when people ask 'So what's new with you?' and not really having anything new to say. I don't think I would be one of his 'cool friends' now, but it's nice to know that I would still earn an invite- ya' know? As with all my attempts to keep in touch with old friends, the call is over too quickly in my eyes. Josh is a busy guy with plans for the holiday weekend and many friends to spend time with. However, it's reassuring to know that, even if you don't know it, there are people who are thinking about you and wishing you the best. And sneak peeks at your baby pictures when they think you aren't looking.